Sharon Friedman – Vigilance and Tranquility

To strike with effect you need to know what is in front of you. You need to be free from desire to harm anyone and simply defend yourself logically. Your emotions should be kept aside and think of any man as your better so you have respect for him and you can learn from him. When you can see anyone as a person you will not fear them or want to harm them more than you have to to survive and that is good. Now as you hit help the person see himself better (you will disappear in his mind) and both of you will be better off. for example if a person wants to have your money for his pleasure and is coming at you for that person, give him more awareness to potential of his body and you will walk away. In more direct words, he puts his arm around your neck, you put your arm around his and walk with him a little in the direction he intended. Keep your form so you are free to move and let go once there is no need for the contact any more.