Expectation: Let’s assume we can do something and than try to do it ? Maybe it will go fine but maybe not. To me our set of beliefs are like a filter we view the world with. I don’t mean your values but the, I am better than him or green is better than tan evaluations we hold dear. It takes less effort in the short run to work by a pattern but it’s not very nice considering we are working like machines and not really living our lives. We fail at learning and observing this way. Another point is that when you exepect nothing from people (not think of them as nothing) than you can truely see them and pretty much never be surprised.