The idea of knowing the distance is covered in the H2H dvd made by Vladimir Vasiliev and it is sometimes easy to let go of this thought as if we are too proud to admit someone’s company makes us uncomfortable or that we want to move away. It is important to listen to your fear of harm and pain and use it wisely to decide to move so you are comfortable. If a person comes at you with a knife in his or her hand and you just wait for it to come and deal with it you are being controlled. Choose when to come in and how. Do not deal with the world. Make it your own. Be honest and new doors of possibilities will open before your eyes.