To heal and calm a partner place your fingers and palms where the pulse is stronger and for a while just be aware of his pulse. Now use your breath and time it with your pulse and insist on calming yourself as you feel his pulse. After a while his tension will find a way out rather than burn the body and there will be some more relaxation and life in him. Remember to keep within yourself as you work and don’t hang on the outcome. Work in good faith but don’t follow your ego into it.